Monday, December 7, 2015

Family Search's ongoing indexing project for the Puerto Rico

Today I was just informed that  Family Search has an ongoing indexing project for the Puerto Rico's Civil Register for Births from 1836–1930. Apparently, the project is about a third of the way completed. If you are interested in helping to index these records, it will only hurry the process along. You can find more information on how to by clicking HERE


Sunday, November 22, 2015

Maria Bravo Hernandez

My maternal 2nd great grandmother is Maria Bravo Hernandez. According to her social security application, Maria was born on November 11, 1893 in Toa Alta, Puerto Rico. 

Maria is the daughter of Ramon Bravo Negron & Pilar Hernandez.  Maria had at least 8 other siblings that I've been able to find records for, but chances are there maybe more that I just haven't discovered yet. Here is a list of siblings I know of:

-Marcelina Bravo Hernandez (1891-1985) 
- Angelina Bravo Hernandez (about 1893- ?) 
- Lucas Bravo Hernandez (1895-1995) 
- Luerccio Bravo Hernandez (1898- ?) 
- Lucrecia Bravo Hernandez (1900-1989) 
- Matilde Bravo Hernandez (about 1905-1925)  

I wonder lots about what Maria's upbringing was like. I know that her father Ramon's paternal line came from Spain a few generations before her. He dies when Maria is about 21, so I assume he was around for all her childhood. Maria marries in 1909 for the first time at the age of 15 to a man that was about 10 to 16 years older than her named Luis Suarez Rodriguez. I've been told that their marriage was in a way, arranged. Maria's parents saw Luis as a respectable man that would be a good provider for Maria. Although I've been told Maria had no romantic interest in Luis, she followed her parents advice & married him. A year later Maria & Luis have twin boys that die as infants. Later on, they have one more son that also dies young at the age of 4. They do end up having two children that make it to adulthood. A son named Ramon Suarez Bravo born in 1912 & then their only daughter together Maria Suarez Bravo born 1915. 

Some time shortly after their daughter Maria was born, they separate. For some reason, records indicate that, Luis & Maria do not legally divorce till many years later. After the split, this is where things become uncertain. We know that Maria moves to a different town leaving both of her only two living children Maria & Ramon to stay with their father Luis. Why she moves out is where things get fuzzy. The story that has been passed down to me is that, Maria had an affair & leaves Luis to start a new life in a new town with her new love. 

No one is sure of why the children remain with their father rather than their mother. There have been different circulating stories as to what happened. Maybe Luis wouldn't allow her to take them. Maybe Maria knew she was not in a position to financial provide for them. Maybe her new companion didn't want the responsibility of providing for the children of another man. Whatever the reason, no one knows for sure, but I've been told that the two children were left behind & census records do show their father Luis raises them.  

Maria's new companion is named Andres Amador Garcia. They move in together & as census records say they are living as a "consensual agreement" rather then a married couple. Andres & Maria have all of their 10 children together before they become legally married in 1947. Why they waited so long to marry is just another mystery to this story. There is also some speculation about Andres & Maria's first child together. She was born in 1918 & family stories say that no one was really certain if this first child was indeed Andres' child or Luis'. However, her death & social security records clearly suggests that Andres Amador recognized her as being his child. 

I also noticed that on all the children's birth records with Andres, Maria is the one giving the information.  She declares herself as a married woman, however she doesn't give any information regarding the father of her 10 children or gives them a second surname. It isn't till her children become married or on their death records that it recognizes them with Andres as their father. However, just as this birth record below Andres is often one of the witness
Here is a list of all of Maria's children with both husbands. 

Children with Luis Suarez Rodriguez
-Leoncio Suarez Bravo (1910-?)
-Luis Suarez Bravo (1910-1911)
-Ramon Suarez Bravo  (1912-2007)
-Barnabe Suarez Bravo (1913-1917)
-Maria Suarez Bravo (1915-2004)

Children with Andres Amador Garcia
- Genara Amador Bravo (1918-1994)
-Ines Amador Bravo (1921-1928)
-Victor Amador Bravo (1922-1928)
-David Amador Bravo (1923- ?)
-Epirmenia Amador Bravo (about 1925-?)
-Mercedes Amador Bravo (1927-1985)
-Domingo Amador Bravo (1929-2005)
-Andres Amador Bravo (1931-1932)
-Maria Rosario Amador Bravo (about 1933-?)
-Antonio Amador Bravo (1935-1997)

My mother met Maria once on a visit to Puerto Rico in 1976. She says she was a short friendly lady that looked like she was in great shape for her elderly age. Maria managed to continue a good relationship with the two children she had from her first marriage. This makes me wonder if leaving them was not her choice. 

Maria Bravo Hernandez's death date is still unknown to me. We believe she died in Puerto Rico in the early 1980's. Something about Maria has always stuck out to me. Especially the part of her life where her & her two eldest children were separated. 

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Death Is Nothing At All

I read this poem on a friend's social media page recently. I was tearing up by the second line. I liked it so much, I thought it deserved a whole blog post of it's own. I changed it a small bit & added a short line to have it fit more with my beliefs.  Here it is:

Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.

Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you,
and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.

Call me by the old familiar name you always have.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. 

I too will be smiling, thinking & praying for you as well.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.

Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near, just round the corner.

All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!



The original version was written by a Catholic priest named: Henry Scott-Holland, who died in 1918. 
Although this poem is new to me, it's been around for a long time & is often used at funerals. As I was reading it for the first time, I thought about all the new people in my family line whom I've never met, or even knew existed before my genealogical search. The poem reminded me of just how real they are, & how important it is to have what little I know about them preserved & passed on. I think about them often. I look forward to the day that I can meet them, hug them & express my love to them.

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Father mystery solved?

I have written about my grandmother before in a post you can read here. I didn't know her well & she died when I was young. All the records I've collected for her (which are birth, marriage & death) list no father. No one living seems to remember her talking about her father or even know of his full name. It's weird because she died not too long ago, I've always found it mysterious that no one knows more about who her father is. 
Here are the clues I had to go off. 
*On the1930 census my grandmother goes by Andrea Lajara Pabellon & so does her older sister. 

*On her marriage record she goes by Andrea Jimenez. She also goes by Andrea Jimenez on a few of her children's birth records. So I've always assumed that whomever her father is, he would be a man by the surname of Jimenez. 


So that's what I've had this whole time to go off. A man with the last name of Jimenez. Not much, & really hard since that surname is still so very popular. Then I found one new clue that changed everything for me. It was this exact image on my computer screen that lead to a whole new set of questions...

As you can see above, on my grandmother's social security application it shows her father's name as Francisco Lajara. I knew she used Lajara once on the 1930's census but that was the only & first time I had ever seen it connected to her or to her sister.   I thought maybe it was just a mistake, like the many others I've found on other census records. Now this made me wonder why she & her sister sometimes used the surname Jimenez rather than Lajara.

So now what? 

I figurered the next step from here would be to request a copy of her original social security application. Learn more about how to order one for your ancestors using this link. It arrived a few weeks later & below is what I received.
 On the physical copy it lists her father only as Francisco Jimenez. I am still not sure why he is listed as Lajara online but not on the physical document. I called to ask but have yet to receive a reply. 

So I searched for any Francisco's with the name combinations of Lajara & Jimenez for that time period. Only one comes up. Seems like he lived in Juncos, (the town my grandmother was born in) for a short time during the early 1900's. However, he is listed on the 1910 census as married & with one son. Could this be why no one really knew of him? My grandmother & her sister were Francisco's illegitimate daughters? So far, it all seems to point that way. 

While I've searched for Francisco Jimenez Lajara, I've learned that the surname LaJara is very uncommon. Not only is it uncommon in Puerto Rico but the few of them that immigrated from Spain to the Caribbean islands are not many. I started to search for others with the last name of Lajara on Ancestry.com & came across 2 Lajara descendants that are cousins. Both have been helpful & willing & happy to fill me in on the history behind the Lajara's living in Puerto Rico. 

This is what one had to say about my possible great grandfather. 

"Francisco Jimenez Lajara, whom often went by just Francisco Lajara resided in Juncos.
All the Lajaras on the island are related. There aren't that many Lajaras in Spain either. The Lajaras come from the province of Murcia, Spain. Most of the Lajara's came to the Spanish colonies (Cuba, PR & Dominican Republic) to develop successful plantations (which they did). In Puerto Rico they resided on the western part of the island & then later settled in Juncos.  They had vast amounts of land. Francisco is believed to have fathered several illegitimate children with several different mothers. One of his descendants remembers hearing Francisco fathered a set of two sisters with one mother, a daughter named Manuela Cruz from another (whom is the grandmother of the lady helping me) and one more daughter named Juanita from another lady."

After reading this I believe the two sisters mentioned above, to be my grandmother & grandaunt.  

I found photos of a few of the Lajaras that received passports in order to travel to these other Spanish islands in the Caribbean (mostly the Dominican Republic) for work. However, no passport for Francisco. 

The two cousins that helped me also compared their DNA results with my Dad's & both matched. We are sure we share a common ancestor. However, one cousin made a closer match. The one with the closer match is a great grandchild of Francisco. Her grandmother like mine was also one of his illegitimate children from Juncos. This just deepens my suspicions about Francisco being my great grandfather. I asked if he ever made an effort or attempt to be a part of this illegitimate daughters life. Her reply was that once when her grandmother was little Francisco came to visit but was not allowed inside. This was the only effort they know of him making.  

It makes me wonder how involved Francisco was in my grandmother's life. Since she does choose to carry his last name on & off at certain times throughout her life, I think she must of known him. Probably met him. Possibly even had somewhat of a relationship with him. How good of a relationship they shared, I don't know. Judging from the circumstances, I'd guess probably not the closest relationship. Oh, how I wish I still had the opportunity to  ask her about this

By 1920 Francisco moves from Juncos (the town where at least 3 of his illegitimate children were born) to Rio Piedras, PR. In 1930 he moves again to San Juan, this time living without his wife & child & living alone. He dies in 1936 at the age of 78 years old. As far as records show, he only had one legitimate child. A son named Francisco Jimenez Diaz. I wish I knew more about this mysterious great grandfather of mine. I've waited so long to know his name & I am grateful to at least have that. I know there has to be more about him that just hasn't been uncovered yet. As I continue to search, I hope many more of my questions about him become answered. 

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Census records for Puerto Rico from the 1800's

Today someone shared this blog post with me that I found super interesting. The link to the blog is here

The substance of the post is about long lost census records for Puerto Rico dating as far back as 1830's. It surprised me because when I started my family search a few years back, I read & was told that the earliest Puerto Rican census records available begin at 1910. I did hear there was one census recorded earlier but that it was destroyed in a fire. Turns out the story about the fire is true, the year of 1900's was destroyed. However, there were several more census records taken, just not available online yet. Family Search has them, but hasn't yet digitized & uploaded them onto their site yet. Not sure why I am just learning about this now, which is why I wanted to share in case any of you are also in the dark about these earlier Puerto Rican census records.

Isn't that amazing? Think of how many more family members we will be able to connect once those are made open to the public. So many more questions will be answered. The blog post also mentions that some time this fall (not certain but hopefully) these records will be uploaded. The next step is having volunteers like you & I actively on there website to help index them to make it easier to find people by names, city, age & so forth. What a huge blessing this will be. I just hope it gets going before the end of 2016.

Below is a photo of my Pabellon line spelled as "Pavellon" for the census recorded in 1897 for the city of Juncos, Puerto Rico.

Saturday, August 15, 2015

Puerto Rican slave record

Growing up, I always wondered why my father's mother was so dark. Especially since most of all her children were lighter in color. I remember asking my father when I was younger & his response was "Well, some Puerto Ricans are light & others are black, that's just how it is". That response has always lingered in my mind. I just wanted to know why? But why were some light & others black?

I found the answer to this question early on in my search. My father's mother is Andrea Pabellon.  Now the surname of Pabellon is very uncommon. As I searched, I learned that there were only a few of them on the island. The majority of them lived in Juncos or Gurabo, Puerto Rico. I also noticed they all declared themselves as "negro" or black.

The oldest Pabellon I could find online is a former slave by the name of Juan Maria Pabellon. Born around 1833 in either Juncos, or Gurabo, Puerto Rico. Below is the slave census record taken in 1872 called Puerto Rico, Registro Central de Esclavos, that tells me most of all I know about Juan Maria.

The record states he was naturally from Puerto Rico meaning he was born on the island. He was about 39 years old when this was recorded & it declares him as single although it does list several children on this same record that declare him as being their father. This record also says Juan Maria was owned by "los Hijos de Saldana" which means the sons or children of a family with the last name of Saldana. I did some digging & it turns out that there was a family by that last name that owned a big farm property in Gurabo. I'm not certain what kind of farm it was but I assume possibly sugar cane or tobacco that was big at this time. It gives the name of one of his parents, which is most likely his mother: M. Gonzalez. I also know that the Saldana family were connected with Gonzalez's by marriage, so maybe that's how they came to own Juan Maria & his children.

So how did I connect this slave record to me you wonder? Well on this same record Juan Maria has 8 children also recorded living with the same slave owner. 6 sons & 2 daughters. One of the sons is named Matias Pabellon. I know for certain Matias is my 2nd great grandfather. Also know that he is the only Matias Pabellon living on the island at this time period. Other records tell me that Juan Maria was married to a black woman named Isabel Ramirez. Which is why my 2nd great grandfather went by Matias Pabellon Ramirez on census records. 

Here is the tricky part in this. On Matias' death record it says his mother is named Maria Pabellon. This really didn't make sense to what I already knew about him, so with a closer look I noticed the person recording the information on Matias' death record was a neighbor. They must of not known each other super well because she leaves out the names of his grandparents because she didn't know who they were. She also gives Matias the second surname of De los Santos, which is the same surname of Matias' ex-wife. Nevertheless, it's the same person. I'm sure of it! Everything in me is telling me that it is. I just need to find a birth or christening record to have a more solid "yes" this is the same person. 

The next question is why did Juan Maria have the surname of Pabellon if his parent or parents went by Gonzalez? I was told that it could of been because of his profession. Pabellon in English means pavilion. He may have been a carpenter of some kind that built pavilions. Or maybe his father built them & so Juan Maria carried on the name. Not positive but what I do know is that even till today the surname of Pabellon is not common on the island or in the US.  I'm so glad those 8 children that Juan Maria & Isabel had, carried his name on & left me a trail to finding out who they are. Every Puerto Rican Pabellon I've discovered is related to me somehow through him. I hope to one day find some one that knows more & can help me on my journey to discovering my Puerto Rican African roots. 

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Agripina Torres Torres 1899-1977

"Photography is a way of feeling, of touching, of loving. What you have caught on film is captured forever. It remembers little things, long after you have forgotten everything."
-Aaron Siskind
The photo of the woman centered above, is my great grand aunt. Her name is...
Agripina Torres Torres. 

Born on October 1, 1899 in San Lorenzo, Puerto Rico. Although, I think she was born a few years before this date was recorded. From what I've gathered she falls some where towards the end of the 12 children born to Juan E. Torres Galves & Ramona Torres Masa whom were cousins (I will write more about them in a later post). At around 7 years old her mother dies. I assume her older sisters (including my great grandmother) helped raise her & her siblings till she marries in 1919. Census records tell me that Agripina may have attended formal schooling. Sometimes she says she has, other times not. She is bilingual & can read & write so this leads me to believe that she did attend school. I was told today from a distant cousin that English was actually her first language, which is a surprise to me. Possibly the first language of some of her other siblings as well. Today I also learned some new information about Agripinia's husband, who is named Jorge Roque Cuevas. Like most newly married couples back then, they marry young. She is about 19 & he is about 22.  Jorge is noted on census records as being a "Torcedor" which I've learned is a highly skilled & trained cigar roller in Gurabo. By 1935 I suspect they have hit  some martial issues. I suspect this because Jorge is living alone, while Agripina is on her own with their children. In 1938 they loose 2 sons within 1 month of each other. José Anibar Roque Torres dies in May at age 12. Then Ernesto Ivan Roque Torres dies at age 5 in June of the same year. I can only image how incredibly heartbreaking it must of been for them to loose two of their little boys in such a sort span of time. I also learned today that my suspicions about their martial problems was right. Sadly this story gets worse before it gets better. Their separation & eventual divorce was lead by infidelity. Turns out Jorge had started a successful cattle farming business with a friend named Conception Mangual Sierra. They sold milk, beef & traded cattle all over the island. Conception dies sometime after the business takes off. He asks Jorge to look after his wife & 3 children. Jorge looked after his wife a little too well because she becomes pregnant with Jorge's son. In the same time this is going on Agripinia is also pregnant with her last child from Jorge. Agripinia & Jorge's mistress are both carrying sons at the same time. I can only imagine the drama that unfolded once this was revealed. They must divorce soon after this because by 1938 Jorge legally marries Hermenegilda Aponte  Ortiz, who was the former wife of Conception. 

By 1940 Agripina has been divorced for a few years. She lives as a single-mother to 4 of her remaining children. Also living with them is her ex-mother-in-law, whom is widowed.  I find it interesting that her mother-in-law chose to live with her rather than with her own son that lives in the same town. No one is working in their home by 1940 except her only daughter named Carmen Delia as a seamstress. I was told that Carmen was a successful seamstress to the local military base on the island. She mended parachutes, uniforms & other miscellaneous military materials. This is a photo of what Carmen Delia looks like below.
Isn't Carmen beautiful? 

Sometime in the late 40's or early 1950's Agripina moves with her children to Manhattan, New York. From this time forward she alternates living in New York City & Puerto Rico.
Agripina dies in 1977 at around the age of 77 in Caguas, PR. I was told she was kind, a devoted Catholic & had a habit of making meals for families in her community that she knew were sick or struggling in some way. She never remarried but instead devoted the rest of her life to her children & grandchildren. This distant cousin of mine described Agripina as "a good woman". It made my heart so happy to hear this about her. Agripina lost her mother early in life, looses 2 of her little boys back to back. On top of this, the hurtfulness she must of felt from her husband's unfaithfulness must of really ached. This was a woman that left everything she knew behind in Puerto Rico (including a free plot of land she inherited from her parents) in order to give her children what she believed would be a better opportunity, a better life.  Throughout it all, Agripinia remains faithful, keeps strong to her religious Catholic roots & moves forward. She sounds very brave. I respect her so much for doing all the good she did despite all the trials that came her way. It makes me wonder how much of this was also installed in Agripina's older sister, who is my great grandmother Maria Ana. I don't have any photos of Maria Ana, so when I first saw the photo above I immediately wondered how much Maria Ana & Agripinia reassemble each other. Sadly this photo of Agripinia is the only tangible thing I have to my great grandmother. Hoping to find more some day soon.

Agripina & Jorge together have 7 children. 6 boys & 1 girl. Their names are below. 

Julio Roque Torres 1917-1985 
Jorge Roque Torres 1920-1990 
Carmen Delia Roque Torres 1923-2007 
Jose Anibar Roque Torres 1926-1938  
Juan Antonio Roque Torres 1929-1998
Ernesto Ivan Roque Torres 1933-1938 
 Oscar Roque Torres 1936