Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Rafaela Torres Torres

This is another 2nd great grand aunt of mine. 
Her name is Rafaela Torres Torres.
  
I discovered Rafaela a while ago but just recently I got to see my first photo of her. I've examined this photo very closely & can see such a strong resemblance in Rafaela & in her younger sister Agripina. You can see & learn more about Agripina here

Rafaela was born on December 1, 1893 in San Lorenzo, Puerto Rico. She is 1 of 12 children born to Juan E. Torres Galvez & Ramona Torres Masa. Her parents were first cousins & at first this was something that made me uncomfortable. As I  continued to search, I noticed & read from other Puerto Rican genealogists that cousins marrying was very common for this time. Puerto Rico is a small island. Most people didn't travel far outside of their home towns & so they married who they knew, & sometimes who you knew happened to be related to you. I hope to write more about this in a separate post but for now I'll leave it at that & get back to Rafaela. 

Records tell me that Rafaela's mother Ramona, died on Rafaela's 12th birthday. Her older sister, who is also my great grandmother Maria Ana was the oldest daughter in the family at that time. I assume she helped raise Rafaela & the rest of her younger siblings still living at home. 

In 1916, at the age of 22, Rafaela marries for the first & only time in her lifetime.  She marries a man by the name of Mateo Galarza Cabre. Mateo is 8 years older than Rafaela. What makes him so interesting to me is that Mateo's father immigrated from Spain to Puerto Rico in 1866. Mateo is the first person on my tree that I've discovered that doesn't have deep Puerto Rican roots on both sides. 

Together Rafaela & Mateo have 6 children together. The names of their children are: 
-Aida Galarza Torres 1917-1933
-Rafael Galarza Torres 1921-?
-Rosalia Galarza Torres 1924-?
-Antonio Luis Galarza Torres 1925-?
-Juan Benito Galarza Torres 1928-1988
-Zoila Galarza Torres 1930- living

After 18 years of marriage together, Rafaela's husband Mateo passes away in 1934. I was told that after this Rafaela was so heartbroken that she wears black dresses for the rest of her life. This explains why the only photo I have of her, she is dressed in black. This small detail into her life, is one of the only ones I know of. I admire her committed loyalty to her late husband. This says so much about her to me. I would of loved so much to meet & chat with her. 

I don't know much more about Rafaela, except I know she was very close to her 2 younger sisters Agripina & Joaquina. There was even a time when her sister Joaquina also becomes widowed, & her & Rafaela move in together. 

Lastly, records tell me that in 1983, at the age of 89, Rafaela dies of heart failure in San Juan, Puerto Rico. 

Monday, January 18, 2016

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. in Puerto Rico

About a year ago I read an article that said Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. went to Puerto Rico & spoke about civil rights. I wasn't sure how accurate this article was because in all my school days this was never brought up. With a little digging I discovered, it's true, King did visit the island. In fact, King visited Puerto Rico at least two times in his life time. Seeing how today marks the day we celebrate Martin Luther King Jr., I thought it would be a good time to share what I learned.
 These visits seem to be something most Puerto Rican's or most people in general, don't know took place. King traveled & gave many talks throughout his time.  Puerto Rico was lucky enough to be one of the places Mr. King hit twice. 

King's first visit was in 1962, he was invited to speak at what is now the Interamerican University of San German. During this same visit he also spoke at the University Of Puerto Rico in Rio Piedras. The fact that he was invited to come & than heeded the invite & spoke means so much. I know this was a time where many Puerto Ricans of African ancestry were still heavily experiencing discrimination & prejudices. I wonder if they really understood what a big deal Mr. King was in the US & what a privilege it was to have him there on their island influencing them for a future equal to all. I also wonder how well Mr. King knew that even in Hispanic circles that the issue of color was an ongoing problem.

3 years later, in the summer of 1965, King is invited again to Puerto Rico, this time to attend & speak at the World Convention of Churches of Christ, in San Juan. The convention was a big deal. This particular convention was well attended, I assume because the word got out that Mr. King would be there. There was a high of 11,000 people, mostly all from the mainland US but there were also 29 different countries being represented there as well.  Mr. King's entire speech that day can be read by clicking here. If you have the time I suggest that you do read it, because it is wonderful. Just reading what he said is so powerful & uplifting, I can only imagine what actually being there in person must of felt like. I did read that afterwards he signed people's bibles, with words of encouragement. 

What a day that must of been. Since his speech was in English, I wonder if it was later translated for all the Puerto Ricans to hear or read that were not bilingual. I wonder how these two visits may have impacted the island or if it even made much of a difference. I would like to think it did. I hope it brought them hope & made them feel like they were not alone. From now on this day will always remind me of the two visits Mr. King made to a small little island in the Caribbean that was feeling the same despair & experiencing similar trials to the ones he knew of.

This is my favorite quote from Mr. King. It wasn't one shared in Puerto Rico that I know of but still a great one. 

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness.
Only light can do that. 
Hate cannot drive out hate. 
Only love can do that."
 

Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day!
to speak in what is now the Interamerican University in San Germán. He also spoke at the University of Puerto Rico in Río Piedras - See more at: http://www.latinorebels.com/2014/01/20/when-martin-luther-king-jr-visited-puerto-rico/#sthash.loLKluxB.dpuf
In fact, King visited the island at least two times in his life: in 1962 and in 1965 - See more at: http://www.latinorebels.com/2014/01/20/when-martin-luther-king-jr-visited-puerto-rico/#sthash.loLKluxB.dpuf
In fact, King visited the island at least two times in his life: in 1962 and in 1965 - See more at: http://www.latinorebels.com/2014/01/20/when-martin-luther-king-jr-visited-puerto-rico/#sthash.loLKluxB.dpuf
In fact, King visited the island at least two times in his life: in 1962 and in 1965 - See more at: http://www.latinorebels.com/2014/01/20/when-martin-luther-king-jr-visited-puerto-rico/#sthash.loLKluxB.dpuf

Monday, December 7, 2015

Family Search's ongoing indexing project for the Puerto Rico

Today I was just informed that  Family Search has an ongoing indexing project for the Puerto Rico's Civil Register for Births from 1836–1930. Apparently, the project is about a third of the way completed. If you are interested in helping to index these records, it will only hurry the process along. You can find more information on how to by clicking HERE


Sunday, November 22, 2015

Maria Bravo Hernandez

My maternal 2nd great grandmother is Maria Bravo Hernandez. According to her social security application, Maria was born on November 11, 1893 in Toa Alta, Puerto Rico. 

Maria is the daughter of Ramon Bravo Negron & Pilar Hernandez.  Maria had at least 8 other siblings that I've been able to find records for, but chances are there maybe more that I just haven't discovered yet. Here is a list of siblings I know of:

-Marcelina Bravo Hernandez (1891-1985) 
- Angelina Bravo Hernandez (about 1893- ?) 
- Lucas Bravo Hernandez (1895-1995) 
- Luerccio Bravo Hernandez (1898- ?) 
- Lucrecia Bravo Hernandez (1900-1989) 
- Matilde Bravo Hernandez (about 1905-1925)  

I wonder lots about what Maria's upbringing was like. I know that her father Ramon's paternal line came from Spain a few generations before her. He dies when Maria is about 21, so I assume he was around for all her childhood. Maria marries in 1909 for the first time at the age of 15 to a man that was about 10 to 16 years older than her named Luis Suarez Rodriguez. I've been told that their marriage was in a way, arranged. Maria's parents saw Luis as a respectable man that would be a good provider for Maria. Although I've been told Maria had no romantic interest in Luis, she followed her parents advice & married him. A year later Maria & Luis have twin boys that die as infants. Later on, they have one more son that also dies young at the age of 4. They do end up having two children that make it to adulthood. A son named Ramon Suarez Bravo born in 1912 & then their only daughter together Maria Suarez Bravo born 1915. 

Some time shortly after their daughter Maria was born, they separate. For some reason, records indicate that, Luis & Maria do not legally divorce till many years later. After the split, this is where things become uncertain. We know that Maria moves to a different town leaving both of her only two living children Maria & Ramon to stay with their father Luis. Why she moves out is where things get fuzzy. The story that has been passed down to me is that, Maria had an affair & leaves Luis to start a new life in a new town with her new love. 

No one is sure of why the children remain with their father rather than their mother. There have been different circulating stories as to what happened. Maybe Luis wouldn't allow her to take them. Maybe Maria knew she was not in a position to financial provide for them. Maybe her new companion didn't want the responsibility of providing for the children of another man. Whatever the reason, no one knows for sure, but I've been told that the two children were left behind & census records do show their father Luis raises them.  

Maria's new companion is named Andres Amador Garcia. They move in together & as census records say they are living as a "consensual agreement" rather then a married couple. Andres & Maria have all of their 10 children together before they become legally married in 1947. Why they waited so long to marry is just another mystery to this story. There is also some speculation about Andres & Maria's first child together. She was born in 1918 & family stories say that no one was really certain if this first child was indeed Andres' child or Luis'. However, her death & social security records clearly suggests that Andres Amador recognized her as being his child. 

I also noticed that on all the children's birth records with Andres, Maria is the one giving the information.  She declares herself as a married woman, however she doesn't give any information regarding the father of her 10 children or gives them a second surname. It isn't till her children become married or on their death records that it recognizes them with Andres as their father. However, just as this birth record below Andres is often one of the witness
Here is a list of all of Maria's children with both husbands. 

Children with Luis Suarez Rodriguez
-Leoncio Suarez Bravo (1910-?)
-Luis Suarez Bravo (1910-1911)
-Ramon Suarez Bravo  (1912-2007)
-Barnabe Suarez Bravo (1913-1917)
-Maria Suarez Bravo (1915-2004)

Children with Andres Amador Garcia
- Genara Amador Bravo (1918-1994)
-Ines Amador Bravo (1921-1928)
-Victor Amador Bravo (1922-1928)
-David Amador Bravo (1923- ?)
-Epirmenia Amador Bravo (about 1925-?)
-Mercedes Amador Bravo (1927-1985)
-Domingo Amador Bravo (1929-2005)
-Andres Amador Bravo (1931-1932)
-Maria Rosario Amador Bravo (about 1933-?)
-Antonio Amador Bravo (1935-1997)

My mother met Maria once on a visit to Puerto Rico in 1976. She says she was a short friendly lady that looked like she was in great shape for her elderly age. Maria managed to continue a good relationship with the two children she had from her first marriage. This makes me wonder if leaving them was not her choice. 

Maria Bravo Hernandez's death date is still unknown to me. We believe she died in Puerto Rico in the early 1980's. Something about Maria has always stuck out to me. Especially the part of her life where her & her two eldest children were separated. 

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Death Is Nothing At All

I read this poem on a friend's social media page recently. I was tearing up by the second line. I liked it so much, I thought it deserved a whole blog post of it's own. I changed it a small bit & added a short line to have it fit more with my beliefs.  Here it is:

Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.

Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you,
and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.

Call me by the old familiar name you always have.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. 

I too will be smiling, thinking & praying for you as well.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.

Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near, just round the corner.

All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!



The original version was written by a Catholic priest named: Henry Scott-Holland, who died in 1918. 
Although this poem is new to me, it's been around for a long time & is often used at funerals. As I was reading it for the first time, I thought about all the new people in my family line whom I've never met, or even knew existed before my genealogical search. The poem reminded me of just how real they are, & how important it is to have what little I know about them preserved & passed on. I think about them often. I look forward to the day that I can meet them, hug them & express my love to them.

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Father mystery solved?

I have written about my grandmother before in a post you can read here. I didn't know her well & she died when I was young. All the records I've collected for her (which are birth, marriage & death) list no father. No one living seems to remember her talking about her father or even know of his full name. It's weird because she died not too long ago, I've always found it mysterious that no one knows more about who her father is. 
Here are the clues I had to go off. 
*On the1930 census my grandmother goes by Andrea Lajara Pabellon & so does her older sister. 

*On her marriage record she goes by Andrea Jimenez. She also goes by Andrea Jimenez on a few of her children's birth records. So I've always assumed that whomever her father is, he would be a man by the surname of Jimenez. 


So that's what I've had this whole time to go off. A man with the last name of Jimenez. Not much, & really hard since that surname is still so very popular. Then I found one new clue that changed everything for me. It was this exact image on my computer screen that lead to a whole new set of questions...

As you can see above, on my grandmother's social security application it shows her father's name as Francisco Lajara. I knew she used Lajara once on the 1930's census but that was the only & first time I had ever seen it connected to her or to her sister.   I thought maybe it was just a mistake, like the many others I've found on other census records. Now this made me wonder why she & her sister sometimes used the surname Jimenez rather than Lajara.

So now what? 

I figurered the next step from here would be to request a copy of her original social security application. Learn more about how to order one for your ancestors using this link. It arrived a few weeks later & below is what I received.
 On the physical copy it lists her father only as Francisco Jimenez. I am still not sure why he is listed as Lajara online but not on the physical document. I called to ask but have yet to receive a reply. 

So I searched for any Francisco's with the name combinations of Lajara & Jimenez for that time period. Only one comes up. Seems like he lived in Juncos, (the town my grandmother was born in) for a short time during the early 1900's. However, he is listed on the 1910 census as married & with one son. Could this be why no one really knew of him? My grandmother & her sister were Francisco's illegitimate daughters? So far, it all seems to point that way. 

While I've searched for Francisco Jimenez Lajara, I've learned that the surname LaJara is very uncommon. Not only is it uncommon in Puerto Rico but the few of them that immigrated from Spain to the Caribbean islands are not many. I started to search for others with the last name of Lajara on Ancestry.com & came across 2 Lajara descendants that are cousins. Both have been helpful & willing & happy to fill me in on the history behind the Lajara's living in Puerto Rico. 

This is what one had to say about my possible great grandfather. 

"Francisco Jimenez Lajara, whom often went by just Francisco Lajara resided in Juncos.
All the Lajaras on the island are related. There aren't that many Lajaras in Spain either. The Lajaras come from the province of Murcia, Spain. Most of the Lajara's came to the Spanish colonies (Cuba, PR & Dominican Republic) to develop successful plantations (which they did). In Puerto Rico they resided on the western part of the island & then later settled in Juncos.  They had vast amounts of land. Francisco is believed to have fathered several illegitimate children with several different mothers. One of his descendants remembers hearing Francisco fathered a set of two sisters with one mother, a daughter named Manuela Cruz from another (whom is the grandmother of the lady helping me) and one more daughter named Juanita from another lady."

After reading this I believe the two sisters mentioned above, to be my grandmother & grandaunt.  

I found photos of a few of the Lajaras that received passports in order to travel to these other Spanish islands in the Caribbean (mostly the Dominican Republic) for work. However, no passport for Francisco. 

The two cousins that helped me also compared their DNA results with my Dad's & both matched. We are sure we share a common ancestor. However, one cousin made a closer match. The one with the closer match is a great grandchild of Francisco. Her grandmother like mine was also one of his illegitimate children from Juncos. This just deepens my suspicions about Francisco being my great grandfather. I asked if he ever made an effort or attempt to be a part of this illegitimate daughters life. Her reply was that once when her grandmother was little Francisco came to visit but was not allowed inside. This was the only effort they know of him making.  

It makes me wonder how involved Francisco was in my grandmother's life. Since she does choose to carry his last name on & off at certain times throughout her life, I think she must of known him. Probably met him. Possibly even had somewhat of a relationship with him. How good of a relationship they shared, I don't know. Judging from the circumstances, I'd guess probably not the closest relationship. Oh, how I wish I still had the opportunity to  ask her about this

By 1920 Francisco moves from Juncos (the town where at least 3 of his illegitimate children were born) to Rio Piedras, PR. In 1930 he moves again to San Juan, this time living without his wife & child & living alone. He dies in 1936 at the age of 78 years old. As far as records show, he only had one legitimate child. A son named Francisco Jimenez Diaz. I wish I knew more about this mysterious great grandfather of mine. I've waited so long to know his name & I am grateful to at least have that. I know there has to be more about him that just hasn't been uncovered yet. As I continue to search, I hope many more of my questions about him become answered. 

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Census records for Puerto Rico from the 1800's

Today someone shared this blog post with me that I found super interesting. The link to the blog is here

The substance of the post is about long lost census records for Puerto Rico dating as far back as 1830's. It surprised me because when I started my family search a few years back, I read & was told that the earliest Puerto Rican census records available begin at 1910. I did hear there was one census recorded earlier but that it was destroyed in a fire. Turns out the story about the fire is true, the year of 1900's was destroyed. However, there were several more census records taken, just not available online yet. Family Search has them, but hasn't yet digitized & uploaded them onto their site yet. Not sure why I am just learning about this now, which is why I wanted to share in case any of you are also in the dark about these earlier Puerto Rican census records.

Isn't that amazing? Think of how many more family members we will be able to connect once those are made open to the public. So many more questions will be answered. The blog post also mentions that some time this fall (not certain but hopefully) these records will be uploaded. The next step is having volunteers like you & I actively on there website to help index them to make it easier to find people by names, city, age & so forth. What a huge blessing this will be. I just hope it gets going before the end of 2016.

Below is a photo of my Pabellon line spelled as "Pavellon" for the census recorded in 1897 for the city of Juncos, Puerto Rico.